We spend so much time trying to be perfect. We try to make everything, including ourselves, look like the fake, airbrushed perfection that is plastered all over the world. In movies, in magazines, on TV shows, everywhere are the pictures of the 'perfect', size zero girl or the 'perfect', well muscled guy that puts pressure on the girls and guys watching that movie or TV show or reading that magazine to look like them. Society is what created this 'perfect' look. The media enhanced what our perception on it should be. People everywhere are trying to look like their favorite actors, actresses, musicians, and even athletes. Girls, mainly, spend their time updating their wardrobe to be the newest and best out there that they saw their 'role-model' wearing in the latest Cosmopolitan that hit the stands. Money isn't a question in their minds as long as they have the best of the best with the best looking guy, or the richest depending on the girl, on her arm. This society is willing to break people apart and not even think twice about it.
So some people fight against it. They fight the 'normal' thing and do their own thing. Their hair doesn't look perfect. Maybe the just rolled out of bed, ran a brush through it if it's long enough, and left the house. Maybe they spent hours on getting the 'just-rolled-out-of-bed' look. Either way, some people stopped caring about what society wants people to look like and basically told it to back off. Some people go out and get tattoos and piercings and while their favorite bands are tattooed and pierced up, the different things are reflecting their inner selves. What these markings show are the different feelings, the different events, that have shaped this person to be who they are today and to be the best of the best in their eyes and no one else's. But, the people who cast what society would like aside, are usually casted aside by society as well, leaving them out in the open, like dirty laundry spilled across the ground for everyone to see, with no one but maybe the other outcasts to keep them company.
And why does this happen? Because we want to be perfect. But we're not perfect! We're just human. We make mistakes. People get blemishes when they get too stressed out or hormonal. People wake up with bad hair days and not enough time to actually make it look as 'perfect' as they believe it should in order to go out that day. We get stuck wearing the clothes that we hate because it's not laundry day yet. We spend so much time trying to be perfect, we forget what is really important in life. I'm not going to be the perfect girl for my boyfriend, no matter how hard I try. I word things incorrectly and make him feel as if I am hiding something or that I am going crazy. I'm not a world-class chef who can make him the most exquisite filet mignon that he has ever tasted. But I can try to be the best for him. I can try to show him how much he means to me and that even though I mess up sometimes, I am still the same girl that he fell in love with back in high school. When it comes to work, I'm not going to be perfect at what I do. Not this time around. I need time to get back to where I was at before in the 'perfection' department. Until then, they have to realize that I am going to make mistakes because I am still getting used to how things work here. I am only one person and working as if I am five will just make things more complicated.
But, in the end, I try. I try to be as perfect as I can be. Who cares about what society thinks of my hair or my make-up (or lack-thereof)? Who cares about my tattoos and piercings? All that matters is what's on the inside. All that matters is what you've done in your life. All that matters is if you TRY to be the best that you can be without caring about the other people around you who judge you.
We are only human. No one is perfect.
Title from the lyrics Monument by A Day To Remember